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Annual bill for having a kid: $8,330
Published: 8/24/2012 9:15 AM
Last Modified: 8/21/2012 8:19 AM


Before a child's 18th birthday, the average middle-class family will spend between $152,340 and $322,560, according to the U.S. Department of Agriculture.

The other day, a friend pointed out a fancy new car and told me that it belongs to an acquaintance of ours – an acquaintance who seems a little more financially secure than I would’ve guessed.

The bitter cloud of jealously colored my face.

“Hey, you could have a car like that,” my friend reassured me, “if you didn’t have a kid.”

Well, maybe not a car that nice. But what we spend on milk alone might pay for a used Chevy, at least.

With soccer lessons here, a new pair of shoes there, parents hardly notice how much they spend on their kids. The costs are sneaky – spreading themselves out, staying hidden and sneaking up on us, so we never have the chance to add them up.

But what if it all came in one big bill at the end of the year?

The U.S. Department of Agriculture offers a rough estimate on what average, middle-class American families spend per child.

Here’s the breakdown for a 3-year-old, my kid’s age:

Food: $1,320-$2,000

Transportation: $840-$1,970

Clothing: $320-$490

Healthcare: $580-$1,050

Childcare/Education: $1,860-$4,040

Housing: $2,800-$5,800

Miscellaneous: $610-$1,740

Total for the year: $8,330-$17,090


But they’re worth it, right?

Right?



Michael's previous entries
  • Aug. 10: The first, scary day of school

  • Aug. 3: Pre-school books to read, and read, and read

  • Aug. 2: Lousy exercise, maybe -- but good family fun

  • July 27: Sleepless nights, worried about Alzheimer’s

  • July 25: TV makes children grow up big and not so strong

  • July 20: 'Bad Guys' are real, but they always lose, right?

  • July 19: A parent's worst nightmare, averted

  • July 13: Family dinners don't matter (well, they do, sort of)

  • July 11: What’s a four-letter word for 'indulged young person?'

  • July 9: Scientists discover ‘the Cool Factor’

  • July 3: Andy Griffith: The great American father figure

  • June 29: Boys are dumb. Girls are ‘Brave.’ But luckily, a plot twist adds nuance

  • June 28: Good thing our parents didn’t keep family photos on transistor radios



  • Written by
    Michael Overall
    Staff Writer



    Reader Comments 2 Total

    Junecstraight (6 months ago)
    So that's where all my money's going!
    Cars depreciate in value. Kids appreciate and value you!

    ...ok, I know that was lame. Sorry :(
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