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Website allows parents, grandparents to screen movies for young viewers
Published: 1/31/2013 1:14 PM
Last Modified: 1/31/2013 1:14 PM


Few things are more disconcerting than sitting down with a grandchild to watch what should be an innocent movie only to have some woman step out of the shower naked, or some guy drop a flurry of f-bombs.

I know Hollywood isn’t intentionally working to coarsen and degrade American society, but movie makers seem to be going out of their way to put gratuitous sex, violence and profanity into otherwise excellent stories.

And you can’t rely on the movie rating system, which is a blunt instrument at best. Objectionable material is turning up unexpectedly these days in movies with relatively tame ratings. On the other side of the coin, some of the best movies have (and deserve) R-ratings: Schindler’s List, Saving Private Ryan, The Passion of the Christ.

What’s a responsible parent/grandparent supposed to do?

Fortunately, a host of websites provide accurate, detailed information about the content of movies that parents can check out before renting a movie for young eyes.

My personal favorite is www.kids-in-mind.com. The website contains detailed, specific descriptions of each instance of nudity, sexuality, violence and profanity.

When my granddaughter wanted me to take her to see Looper in the theater, I consulted the site, and determined that the film contains two topless women and 29 F-words, not exactly the kind of thing I want to watch with a 13-year-old.

The website also prevents another trap I’ve fallen into: seeing and loving a movie on television, only to rent it to watch with grandkids and discover it is laced with objectionable material that was edited out of the TV version.

Which brings up another thought: as long as someone has gone to all the expense to clean up movies for television, why don’t they make the cleaned-up version available for rent? I’d love to rent a movie I can relax and watch with kids without having my finger constantly poised above the fast-forward button. It could carry a family-friendly label, something like “edited for television.”

Netflix, Redbox, are you listening?


Written by
Bill Sherman
Staff Writer



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Bill Sherman, grandfather of 12

He and his wife have six children and 12 grandchildren and he enjoys running around town on his dorky scooters and watching the Green Bay Packers. He moved to Tulsa in the 1980s to attend Bible school. Sherman is the Tulsa World’s religion writer.

Rod Walton, father of four

He and his wife Laura have been married since 1989. They have four children -- Rachel, 20; Rebecca, 18; Hayley, 15, and Will, 13. Walton is a business writer for the Tulsa World Business section and covers the energy industry.

Colleen Almeida Smith, mother of two

She and her husband have two daughters, ages 7 and 12. She loves reading and anything about food -- cooking it, eating it, and reading and writing about it. Almeida Smith is an assistant editor.

Michael Overall, father of a toddler

His 4-year-old son will introduce himself to people as “Gavin Jared Overall, My Daddy’s Buddy.” Gavin likes model trains, iPads and sleeping late, except on the weekends, when he likes to get up early. Overall is a general assignment reporter for the Tulsa World city desk.

Althea Peterson, mother of an infant

She recently returned to work at the Tulsa World after two months of maternity leave with her daughter. She followed her older brother from rural Wisconsin to the University of Oklahoma. Peterson is a staff writer who also contributes to the Weather World blog.

June Straight, mother of two

With seven years between their daughters, she and her husband split their time between dealing with dirty diapers from one kid and dirty looks from the other. Straight is a designer for the Tulsa World.


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