On point #1: I agree 90%. Let the game decide who's Big 12 Coach of the Year. Fine. But after watching Callahan guard against a USC rout, instead of trying to win it, I stick to my previous comments about him. He's gutless. The 10% disagree comes from the Big 12 bashing. It is no doubt as good as it has been. I'm not so sure it's as bad as you say it is, though. It has no true NC contender, so it's not as top heavy. It has several good teams though. I'll reserve judgement until after the bowl season. It works for coach of the year...
As for point #2, I agree 95%. This is what Stoops is about, though. Mike Leach is no longer at the helm. Remeber what the lack of a running game got them several years back? Several lost leads. Sure, the defense wasn't as strong. There is a time to go completely conservative...that being when the end of the game is in site, and running out the clock is a sure thing if you don't gain another yard. Before then, I want to see first downs. I'm not for airing it out in the 4th qtr, but some creativity can be shown in the running game (or even very short passing game). I'm sure PT's lack of accuracy at times plays a small role in not putting it into the air. All in all though, I agree with you. These last minute defensive stands are getting too nervy for me.
I've heard Barry Switzer speak about this many times. He will tell you that it is impossible to watch the players 24-7. Of course, he has an agenda here. He made a living recruiting the "at risk" athlete, and paid the price in the end.
Now, if a pattern emerges, then coaches need to be held somewhat responsible. This is what happened to Barry. In the case of Boamr and Quinn, as soon as OU (as far as we know) found out about the violations and confirmed them, they dismissed the players. What else can they do? I THINK STOOPS SHOULD BE COMMENDED FOR HIS ACTIONS HERE...not repremanded. I hope the NCAA finds nothing else wrong and agrees that OU acted properly. It is ultimately up to any college coach to recruit great athletes who are also great people. They take a chance when they invite anything less on campus.
In summary, I do not hold the Bomar/Quinn incident agaisnt Stoops and Co., unless evidence surfaces that shows they failed those kids in some way.