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Pilgrim knows guns are no joke
Published: 11/9/2010 10:00 PM
Last Modified: 11/9/2010 10:00 PM

I'm comfortable saying basketball player Matt Pilgrim meant no malice when he posted an ill-advised comment on his Twitter page Monday in reference to a shooting near OSU's campus.

Why am I comfortable saying it? Because of this name: Theo Smalling.

Pilgrim knows guns are nothing to laugh at because Smalling, a friend and former teammate, was killed in an accidental shooting last year. Smalling, on the weekend of his 22nd birthday, was in the parking lot of a Hampton, Va., nightclub and took a fatal bullet in the abdomen when a buddy mishandled a firearm.

Smalling's death exacted a toll on Pilgrim and that contributed to him having to work through some issues during his first season at OSU.

People have been quick to condemn Pilgrim for his Twitter post about the shooting. It was an attempt at humor, but it also was a goofy thing to do, especially for someone who has already used up a couple of strikes. The backlash would have been overwhelming if anyone had died in the shooting.

Young men have been doing silly things since the dawn of mankind. Maybe other students made light of the shooting in Twitter posts, but you're held to a different standard if you represent a university and its athletic programs.

Pilgrim needs to help himself instead of making the jobs of those around him more difficult. He created unnecessary aggravation for coach Travis Ford. Some readers believe it's time for Pilgrim to go. If I was in Ford's position, I wouldn't send Pilgrim packing. There's a complicated, mysterious guy in Pilgrim's body who says he wants to do the right things and have a good life. If that guy can stop being his own worst enemy, everyone will benefit.

--Jimmie Tramel.

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Jimmie Tramel
Sports Writer



Reader Comments 2 Total

MexiMike (2 years ago)
Pretty much agreed, Jimmie.

The tweet as an isolated incident isn't necessarily the problem. It definitely wasn't the most politically correct thing to say but by itself, it wouldn't cause much of an uproar.

The problem is that Pilgrim keeps making bad decision after bad decision. Why even take the chance of tweeting something controversial when you were just allowed back on the team after being suspended indefinitely?

It just seems like he doesn't think before acting. I hope the light turns on for Pilgrim because I really do like him. I think he is a good person that finds himself making bad choices. Hopefully everything turns out alright.
Ernie McCracken (2 years ago)
Let's rewind on Matt's time at OSU:

*Pilgrim suspended for the UT game last year for sneaking out of the team hotel and having a late night trist.

*Pilgrim and Moses almost coming to blows on the bench during a timeout of a ESPN televised game.

*Pilgrim being accused of sexual assault by an OSU student. Pilgrim was also accused of harrasing the woman. A protective order filed against him was dropped and the judge said both students acted foolishily(paraphrasing).

*This preseasons, Pilgim was indefinitely suspended from the OSU basketball team for not being 100% committed to the team. He just recently was re-instated.

*Pilgrim tweets about an insensitive joke about a shooting when the gunmen was at large and the campus was on lock down. Then he follows it up by calling Stillwater a "boring" town as a reason for his statement. In the process he has lost respect from many O-State fans.

This is a history of self-destructive behavior. All of these events have cast a bad light on the OSU basketball program. I'm all for giving kids some slack, but some times if you give a kid too much rope, he'll hang himself with it.
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Tulsa World Sports Writer Jimmie Tramel is a former class president at Locust Grove High School. He graduated magna cum laude from Northeastern State University with a journalism degree and, while attending college, was sports editor of the Pryor Daily Times. He joined the Tulsa World on Oct. 17, 1989, the same day an earthquake struck the World Series. In 2007, he wrote a book about Oklahoma State football with former Cowboy coach Pat Jones.

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Tulsa World Sports Writer Kelly Hines joined the World staff in September 2007. She grew up in the Oklahoma City area, was valedictorian at her high school and attended Oklahoma State University. She previously worked at The Oklahoman and KOTV and in the World's web and news departments.

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