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For a silent girl, Hanson speaks
Big hearts enable her to make concert

Thomas Stiff sits with his granddaughter Lindsey Easton in this 2008 photo. It took a lot of help and some nice people to arrange for Lindsey to attend a recent Hanson concert. Tulsa World file
 
By JENNIFER CHANCELLOR World Scene Writer
Published: 10/6/2009  2:22 AM
Last Modified: 10/6/2009  8:06 AM

Hanson fan Lindsey Easton has a lot of friends — and most of them had never even met her until last week.

But the Tulsa trio of Zac, Isaac and Taylor know her well because she's been coming to their concerts since she was a young girl.

"My daughter's unable to speak," said Lindsey's mom, Laurie Easton. "We go see Hanson every year when they're in town — we've even traveled to Oklahoma City."

In fact, the first thing Lindsey got for her birthday last month was a Hanson concert ticket — the day they went on sale. But this year's visit was unlike any other. In fact, Lindsey almost didn't make it to the concert date last Wednesday at Cain's Ballroom.

"I tell people, 'You know Christopher Reeve? That's what she's got,' " Laurie told the Tulsa World in 2005, after Lindsey graduated as co-valedictorian at Glenpool High School.

Though her mother uses the analogy to make her daughter's condition more easily understood, Lindsey has Pompe disease — a rare and debilitating version of muscular dystrophy. (Reeve suffered a spinal cord injury.)

"Lindsey was in the ER last Monday. She coded twice," her mother said calmly during a phone interview last week. "She had a pneumonia and heart failure. She was so, so sick."

But Lindsey fought back with quiet determination, like she always has. In fact, she was diagnosed with the disease as an infant and wasn't expected to live past toddlerhood. She's now 23.

"She's bright. She's all there. She was so afraid she wouldn't make the show. But we were afraid she wouldn't make it," Laurie said soberly. After 10 days in the hospital, Lindsey was still on oxygen and monitors. But she was feeling better.

"It's a testament to the power of music," Laurie said. "She was determined to go to that show."

Backstage pass

It started simply.

"I was approached by her sister," said Brad Harris, Cain's Ballroom production manager. Lindsey's sister Shannon is a "runner" who does errands for the concert hall before and during concerts, he said. "She told me that Lindsey was a huge Hanson fan."

The venue often accommodates all sorts of needs, but this was a first, said Harris.

First, Lindsey's mom called the ambulance service in their home town of Glenpool. Due to Lindsey's weakness, an ambulance ride — on a full gurney bed with heart monitors, oxygen tanks and paramedics — would have to accompany her to the show. Two Glenpool paramedics volunteered their time, equipment and expertise.

Next, Laurie called Cain's Ballroom. Management agreed to let her daughter enter through the back door, with a prime view from just beside the stage. Lindsey's grandfather Thomas Stiff was also impressed by the generous offer of friendship and support.

"They said 'Don't worry, we will do whatever is necessary to get her there.' They not only transported her to Cain's, they had two attendants stay with her the entire time she was there, and brought one very happy girl back home."

Meet and greet

Hanson even played her favorite song — their first hit, "MMMBop." They also played a cover tune that rocked the mother and daughter to their cores, said Laurie. It was Journey's hit, "Don't Stop Believing."

From there, Lindsey — with help from her new paramedic friends and family — was wheeled out back to visit.

"After the show," Harris said, "Hanson's tour manager stopped me and said the guys wanted to meet her. She was alert; she was so happy. It was so emotional, I couldn't watch the whole thing. I was afraid I'd start crying."

Lindsey's mom agreed to the visit — and didn't miss one second of the 20-minute exchange.

"Zac always recognizes her," said Laurie. "They're just really nice boys — well, they're boys to me," she said, then laughed. "They thanked her for being such a longtime fan. They also told her to never stop listening to music.

"So many people went so far out of their way to help her. To have so many unexpected friends has been one of the best gifts our family could ever receive."

As the dream meeting drew to an end, Taylor Hanson even bent over the young woman and kissed her on the cheek.

"Not many people will bend over to kiss anyone in a hospital bed like that," said her mom as her voice shook with emotion. "They were all so good to her."


Jennifer Chancellor 581-8346
jennifer.chancellor@tulsaworld.com
By JENNIFER CHANCELLOR World Scene Writer

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Arbythree, Tulsa (10/6/2009 11:04:15 AM)
Wow! What a story. I am speechless and filled with emotions.

Jennifer, you captured and conveyed everything in this article.
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2ndjoyce, BA (10/6/2009 11:15:01 AM)
Wow is right, A3. Good thing I'm typing. Otherwise I'd be a blathering mess.

What great people all around.
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lucky girl, mine (10/6/2009 11:19:46 AM)
This is an amazing story.
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wanderlust, (10/6/2009 11:38:24 AM)
This story made a mean, cynical bastard like me teary eyed.

I have a new respect for the guys from Hanson and the Cains....Good job folks. You just added some really valuable karma points to your balance.
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Maura, Kensington (10/6/2009 1:19:14 PM)
What a touching story-I know Hanson always likes to include all their fans, whatever their needs are, at their concerts and would make sure everyone has the chance to see them.

I love those guys!
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gonzo, Tulsa (10/6/2009 1:33:33 PM)
MMMbop
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mommamichelle, Ramona (10/6/2009 2:17:34 PM)
Makes you proud to be an OKIE!
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Proud Muslim, Tulsa: Coolest place in the world (almost) (10/7/2009 3:32:47 PM)
Maybe the world's not so bad afterall...

What Arby3 said.
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zTruth, Tulsa (10/7/2009 7:48:39 PM)
God bless you, Lindsey. You are an inspiration to us all!
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coffeelady, (10/8/2009 11:37:44 AM)
What a wonderful story! So many good people involved in this. Way to pay it foreward everyone! Makes our troubles seem very insignificant. Lindsey, what courage and determination you have! You have touched my heart.
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ConcernedTaxpayer, (10/27/2009 4:49:11 PM)
I'm all for stories and situations like this - I volunteer over 40hrs/wk in addition to holding down a few part time jobs, one of which is a huge non-profit in town. However, I was at that show and Lindsey's family was extremely rude. They expected everyone to know exactly why they were there and why they deserved special treatment. Asking someone NICELY to move to the side so their disabled daughter on a gurney can see the stage is one thing, but rudely tapping someone on the shoulder and saying 'You need to move NOW, my daughter can't see' is a completely different thing. I'm glad she had a great time/experience, Cain's and Hanson were great about it, but nobody should act so entitled. Period.
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