OU-Oregon official should be forgiven 9/19/2006 12:10:01 PM
Oklahomans are good people, but no one in Oregon – or probably around the country – would believe that right now.
Not after the news coming out of Oregon today. The replay official who blew a call in the Oklahoma-Oregon game received a death threat from an OU fan.
According to a column (see the link below) in the Oregonian, a Portland newspaper, replay official Gordon Riese had seven threatening phone calls Monday morning before 9 a.m. One caller threatened to kill Riese and his wife. At that point, Riese called police and unplugged his phone.
The rest of the story by columnist John Canzano explained exactly who this demonized replay official is. He’s a father. A husband. A grandfather. A 30-plus year high school math teacher. A long-respected football official. A 64-year-old man who’s so tormented over a blown call he’s losing sleep and an ongoing battle with high blood pressure.
In the days since Riese made a bad decision in an Oregon football stadium, his life has been shaken. He never intended to do a bad job, and now it’s eating him up inside. And according to the Oregonian’s story, Riese wasn’t exactly working under the best circumstances. Apparently, he wasn’t given all the views we saw on ABC’s national television broadcast.
But Riese is vilified. He’s the man who cost OU a football game and prompted a university president to write a letter in outrage.
Make no mistake. OU President David Boren is entitled to his outrage. So is OU coach Bob Stoops. So are players. So are fans. No one likes injustice, and OU suffered an injustice. Anger is a natural reaction.
But people are judged by how they react to adversity. And perceptions are created in exactly those moments.
When the university president writes a letter, here’s what some will wonder: Is football really that important, too important, to people in Oklahoma? If the athletic director writes a letter, people simply shrug and say, “That’s what athletic directors do. They defend their athletic programs.”
And when fans get so incensed they make phone calls to a man’s home hundreds of miles away and threaten to kill him, it shapes public perception. Sure, it’s only a few people – an infinitesimally small fraction of all OU fans or Oklahomans – who would make such a phone call.
But guess what? Here’s what people think about us when they see these things:
Oklahoma is a place where a football game is so important, a university president needs to intervene. And fans are so crazy they will issue death threats.
That perception stinks. It glosses over who we really are.
Oklahomans are people who rally to help in tough times. Tornadoes, a bombing, a hurricane? Oklahomans are immediate with their compassion and help.
Oklahomans are a passionate people who can turn anger into forgiveness in a big hurry.
Think about Riese for a moment. A family man. A school teacher. A person who takes pride in his work and feels terrible about a mistake. Sounds like Riese could have come from our own borders.
Forgiveness isn’t always easy. But Gordon Riese is exactly the kind of person Oklahomans can forgive.
Click here for the Oregonian’s story.
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